Grandparents Connect
Grandparents can hold a special place in family life, imparting wisdom and experience to younger generations. For families navigating the care of a child with special needs, grandparents can be an important source of support during challenging moments. These relationships can offer children meaningful opportunities for connection and growth.
On Sunday, November 1, LifeTown hosted a very special Grandparents Breakfast, creating a space where grandparents could share experiences, build meaningful connections, and celebrate their beloved grandchildren. Guests began the morning with a delicious spread of bagels, muffins and fruit, while making introductions and learning about one another.
“You need a lot of support because people who don’t have a child with special needs in the family can’t relate,” said Jeff Blonstein. “I think this is fantastic for connecting with other people who are going through the same experience.”
For some, the chance to connect was so meaningful that they traveled from far away. One couple took the train from New York City to meet like-minded grandparents and learn more about how LifeTown has impacted their grandchild. The gathering offered guests an opportunity to connect with others who understood their family dynamic.
“I am really looking forward to connecting with other grandparents because it’s different than talking to your children or even your friends,” said Ellen Lazer. “It’s amazing to meet other grandparents in similar situations.”
Guests were awestruck as they took a tour of LifeTown, witnessing firsthand all the innovative spaces their grandchildren enjoy. As they walked through the LifeTown Shoppes, they were amazed by the abundant opportunities for learning and growth. The numerous play spaces, such as the indoor playground, sand room, sensory room, basketball courts, swimming pool and outdoor football field, impressed each guest with the variety of opportunities for children to gain independence and expand their abilities.
“This is an extraordinary experience,” said Paul Becker. “It’s unbelievable to see the facilities here. The amount of time and effort that went into LifeTown is really mind boggling. I’ve never in all my 77 years seen anything like this. It’s amazing.”
Psychologist Dr. Barbara Listhaus, spoke to all the grandparents about their unique role, bringing a fresh and professional perspective to the event. Listhaus spoke about connecting with grandchildren with special needs through curiosity and engagement with their interests. Her presentation was an important reminder that love and understanding can help deepen those connections.
“I listened with tears in my eyes to the ways in which you’re connected to your grandchildren and how special your relationship is with them. I believe that we contribute so much to enriching the lives of our children and grandchildren,” said Listhaus.
Guests were also treated to a tour of the new Soul Center space and learned about the opportunities their grandchildren will have as they transition to adulthood. Seeing the possibilities for continued growth offered guests a glimpse of a bright and hopeful future.
“It is so amazing here,” said Sandy Santora. “It really makes a difference for children with special needs. Being a grandparent is a super important role. I’m the Bubbe and Bubbes are just there for their grandchildren forever.”
Grandparents of children with special needs spent a morning being celebrated and understood. Each connection made was a chance for greater understanding and new friendships, offering a touching reminder that they are never alone.
